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When you have a problem in your sex life, something isn’t working, or you’re feeling sexually unfulfilled, you may visit your GP as a first port of call. Your GP will ask you some questions, probably examine you and might carry out some tests, but may very well tell you that there is nothing physically wrong with you. So where do you go from there?

Psychosexual Therapy helps you to explore the psychological, biological and social factors that may be contributing to the problems you are having with your sex life, now that a physical cause has been ruled out. It’s a talking therapy, so you wouldn’t be required to undress, and no tests or examinations would be carried out.

So what sort of problems do I help people with? The list is quite extensive but some of the common ones are:

A low desire or lack of interest in sex, difficulties with arousal, orgasm, erections, or ejaculation, painful sex or difficulties with penetration, fear or anxiety around sex, performance anxiety is extremely common. Addictions to sex, or pornography, worries or confusion around gender, sexual orientation or sexual preferences. Fetishes that may be having a negative impact on your life. I also help with sex education for those who have a lack of sexual knowledge or experience.

Would you like to book an appointment? You will find an online booking system on the website or call me if you have any questions or concerns.

Helping you take the next steps

Whether you are currently in a relationship or not, however you identify, whatever your gender, your sexual orientation or sexual preferences. If you are currently experiencing difficulties in your sex life, or your relationship, there is a very good chance I can help you.

Sex and Relationship Therapy

I offer a comfortable, non-judgemental environment, where you can talk about any issues you may be having with your relationship or sex life, whether you are an individual or a couple. You will be able to talk openly, and confidentially.

Events and Courses

Are you looking to learn more about Sex and Relationships? Join us at the North Hampshire Clinic for Seminars, Events and Courses coming September 2019 at our new Clinic in the Centre of Basingstoke - there is something for everyone!

Sex Talk; NHC Podcast

bring you conversation around sex and relationships. Hosted by Jess, with regular appearances from Carol, these podcasts are about sharing our passion for breaking the taboo, opening up conversation and talking more about sex.

Treatment Hub (COMING SOON!)

The Treatment Hub, a place where our Team, together with other therapists, coaches and counsellors come together. There will be lots of events, open days and if you are a therapist yourself we have rooms available for hire in the centre of Basingstoke.

Let's Talk About Sex

I'm passionate about opening the door to conversation and education, for a healthy and safe sex life. Let's talk about sex....My blogs, thoughts, advice and news

Common Problems

There are a host of sexual and relationship problems (common and no-so-common) that can get between a person and their ideal sex life. The list is not exhaustive...

What happens in our First Session

I'll ask questions, answer any concerns you have. It is my job to help you feel relaxed enough to communicate the problems you need help with. 

Book an Appointment

You can book an appointment with me right now using the online booking system. Just click on the button below to find an appointment time that’s suitable for you. Next day appointments are often available.

North Hampshire College

Professional training for psychotherapists, counsellors and other health professionals who wish to expand their practice and work effectively with clients who present with sexual and relationship issues.

Sex Talk - Let's break the taboo

Read the latest articles from 'Sex Talk'; where I share articles, insights, case studies, my experience, news and tips on all things sexual and healthy relationships.


Do you titillate your lover with flirty messages suggesting that you’d like to skip dinner and move straight into the bedroom for dessert? Sexting is a practice often associated with teenagers, and young adults but the reality is that it has become popular across all age ranges. So, is it a good thing? When is it bad? Be a safe and sexy 'sexter'...

Are we defined or doomed by our attachment styles?

Did you know that our adult relationships may be heavily influenced by our upbringing? The way we attached to our primary caregivers in childhood and other life experiences as we grew, may have shaped how we attach romantically.

Are all you fellas out there doing your pelvic floor exercises?

Yes, that's right! Men have pelvic floors too.... Regular exercise can increase penile strength, intensify orgasms and assist in delaying ejaculation.

Here is how you do it....

The first step is always the hardest....

I understand that the idea of therapy for many people is a big step. I am here to put you at your ease, ensure that all your fears are addressed and answer any questions you may have. Take the next step, contact me today and book your first appointment.